I had an epiphany during my senior year of college. I was walking one evening to cheap-pitcher night at one of the campus dives, thinking about a girl I had always had a crush on who had finished school and left town and who, a few years prior, had seemed interested. When the “truth” reared its ugly head: “Look, dipshit (speaking to myself). No, you’re not going to “get your shit together” one day and have a sex life. Here you are in a Disneyland of pussy and all you do is get shitfaced every night and sit around with a bunch of asshole clowns farting and telling dirty jokes.”

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Also, I think you covered every conceivable topic whilst trying to make sense of one – male virginity. If you are successful, you will find that the greatest sex you have ever had will pale in comparison to the feeling you will be LIVING, having gone BEYOND it This quote from above, though it sounds believable, it’s still a tough nugget to swallow for those that have never had the experience of great sex, or any sex for that matter. You can’t make comparisons to those things that you’ve never experienced…

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You have already had your fun playing the game, had some type of relationships with eight guys, popped out a kid and now your ready to nest, as indicated by your wish for marriage. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not doubting your love for this guy, but your motives appear to more of a safety net than attraction. Let me ask you this, would you be willing to have another kid with this guy? Would you be willing to sign a prenuptial agreement? Would you still have a relationship with him if he was poor?

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I’m not a virgin but I might as well be. Nothing worse than being a horny kid, desperate just to lose that stigma, then failing the first chance you get. Then the next, and the next and the next. I can’t blame it on the women, they were perfectly understanding and wanted to give me another chance. OK, I did mange to pull it off once, when I was 20, one drunken night. Sorry, that doesn’t do it. Odd, since I got off to a good almost-start, making out, etc. Several women have told me I was a very good kisser, except I’ve kissed maybe twice in the past 25 years. (Currently a few years on the dark side of 50.)

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i’m 45 and still a virgin. my advice for any guy over 35 and still a virgin is give up. it’s not going to happen, don’t even try it’s only going to lead to more misery and more rejection. i’m sorry it sounds cruel but it’s the truth and my fellow virgins know it. There are other issues than need to be mentioned. I was treated for depression – therapy, not medication – when I was about 12. An alcoholic from an alcoholic family, the drinking kicked in at about 15, before failure number one. Nothing about me outwardly fits the virgin stereotype. I was something of a “freak” in high school but hey, it was the 70s. I’m generally considered good-looking, smart, have a sharp sense of humor and can make people laugh. I’ve always had good peer relations and friends. My closer friends know I have little or no experience, but most people, including most women, would be surprised to learn of my celibacy.

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